Michael Barrymore and the Tragic Death of Stuart Lubbock Part 2: That Night

Cheryl and Michael, in happier times

My first blog on the 999 call is here.

Background

Ok, first of all, Michael Barrymore successfully masqueraded as a straight man for many years (probably felt that he had to) so let’s not forget that he was always a credible liar. Quotes from Michael Barrymore are in blue. Quotes from press/media are in red. Quotes attributed to Stuart Lubbock are in green. Any others are in brown.

Coming Out

Michael Barrymore chooses to do this by joining a drag queen on stage at The White Swan pub. On 'New York, New York', he sings:

Start spreading the news I’m gay today

then throws his wedding ring to the floor. This ‘coming out’ could have been staged better by his team/agents/whatever, with both Michael Barrymore and his wife, Cheryl, present. This drunken outburst shows no concern or empathy for her feelings. 

Despite this and the tabloid headlines that inevitably follow, eg ‘Star Cuddled up to Sleepy Teenage Boys’, ‘Boozed Barrymore Tried to Bed My Sons’, Michael Barrymore’s career more or less continues as normal. In response to his ‘coming out’ he says, gratefully but also with a hint of pride:

When you have the love and support of a nation, no problem, apart from death, is unsolvable.

This proves prophetic. The public might be able to forgive him for hiding his identity, for deceiving himself, for deceiving his wife – we assume that she was not aware of his sexuality when he married her. But a death is another thing.

It isn’t what happens to you in life, it’s how you deal with it.

In this instance, he came out in a cowardly way but at least stayed around to face the repercussions. But how did he react to Stuart Lubbock’s death? By running away.

What do we know about that night?

Date: 30 – 31 March 2001

Location: Millennium nightclub, Harlow, Essex

Stuart, Barrymore, Kevin

Stuart Lubbock and his brother, Kevin, are on a night out, when Stuart comes out of the Gents and tells Kevin: ‘Michael Barrymore’s in the toilets’. 

When Barrymore comes by, there is a brief interchange. Kevin reports that a woman with the Barrymore contingent whispers something in Stuart’s ear. Stuart leaves with them, his brother is not asked so stays there. Possibly he’s been told to ditch his brother and join them. It’s left to our imagination what Barrymore saw in the Gents that inspired this invitation.

Now I’m sure, as are Terry Lubbock, Stuart’s father, and Kevin, that all Stuart expected was a bit of fun, the chance to mix with a celebrity, check out his place, although there are claims that Stuart Lubbock said, hours before his death:

‘I can't believe I’ve pulled Barrymore.’

No source is given for this and even if it were true, I know many a straight guy who would be delighted that a TV star had taken an interest in them, might take pride in this without expecting it to lead to anything other than harmless flirtation.

Timeline

2.30 a.m.: The cab driver, who took Barrymore and Stuart back that night, interviewed for the documentary, says:

'No one had a problem with Barrymore apart from the fact that he liked to drink.'

From this we ascertain that Barrymore was often drunk, that this was known to local cabbies.

Of Barrymore inviting people back that night:

'I didn’t like it. He wasn’t in a fit state to entertain anyone.'

The implication here is that the cabbie believes Barrymore might be taken advantage of.

In the car though, Barrymore is said to have leaned forward to tell the driver:

I could do with a fuck right now.

This is a bald statement of his intention. It also suggests that Barrymore is not that particular about how he gets this but you have to assume he hopes that it will be someone he's bringing back to the house.

2.47 a.m.: The party starts.

Timeline from the paper

Who was there?

There were nine attendees, listed here in alphabetical order.

1. Michael BARRYMORE
2. Kelly CAMPBELL (friend of Kylie's)
3. James FUTERS
4. Claire JONES (friend of Kylie's)
5. John/Jonathan KENNEY (Michael Barrymore’s boyfriend at the time)
6. Stuart LUBBOCK
7. Justin MERRITT
8. Kylie MERRITT (Justin's sister)
9. Simon SHAW

We don't know whether the mystery woman was one of the above or someone who went her own way. It would be interesting to find out.

It is unclear how many of these people already knew each other. Well, we know Kylie knew her friends and her brother. What we do know is that Stuart didn’t know any of them.

The next part of the story is gleaned from interviews that Michael Barrymore has given to TV pundits much later on. As such, it needs analysis and will be covered in Part 4.

5.00 a.m.: Barrymore sees Stuart in the pool. But back to what we know from press coverage of that night. This image supposes that Barrymore fled the scene to Simon Shaw's place before the emergency services were called. But if this time is accurate, what did everyone do between the discovery of the body and calling for help?

5.48 a.m.: 999 call (see Part 1 for analysis of this). Police arrive on scene while man is on the phone.

8.23 a.m.: Stuart is declared dead at Princess Alexandra Hospital.

Barrymore's house

10.35 a.m.: First reporters react. 

‘Thirty-one-year-old Stuart Lubbock was found floating in the swimming pool at Mr Barrymore’s home in Essex. He died soon after.’

‘Stuart Lubbock was found floating unconscious in the pool. But attempts to revive him failed.’

So these statements both imply that Stuart didn’t drown in the water as the 999 caller said but was still alive but unconscious when he was pulled out. But this (mis)information could easily have come from the party-goers or merely be an assumption so it is not necessarily true. It could just be a part of the narrative Barrymore wants to establish (see Part 1) or a simple attempt at obfuscation. No one mentions that it was Barrymore who found him. This fact has not been disclosed yet.

A journalist says:

‘The immediate assumption was that the victim was gay because who the hell would go back with Michael Barrymore? A group of young men.’

This fails to take into account the fact that there were three girls in the group. The presence of the girls might have made Stuart feel safe.

‘The man, thought to be gay, was found in just his underpants.’

Again, we’d have to suppose that this is a guess possibly by the same reporter. Stuart isn’t gay. They add ‘in just his underpants’ because it’s titillating. If the guests were given shorts as Barrymore claims (see Part 4), why would Stuart be in his underwear? Was he re-dressed by someone?

A spokesman says Michael Barrymore is ‘deeply saddened’.

‘It certainly seemed to be a pretty nasty poolside party.’

This might again be an assumption – who knows? Is it based on hearsay about similar parties at Barrymore's or purely an attempt to put a sexual spin on the story?

Oscar Pistorius

‘Michael Barrymore weeps as gay pal dies face down in his pants.’

More sensationalism and lies. I’m not sure if Barrymore was crying at any point (and if he was I’d say that these were the sort of tears that Oscar Pistorius shed over Reeva Steenkamp, i.e. tears for himself, his career and the fact that his life will never be the same). What I do know is:
1. Stuart wasn’t gay. 2. Stuart wasn’t Barrymore’s ‘pal’. 3. Stuart wasn’t ‘face down’. When I analyse the later interviews you’ll see that Barrymore states that Stuart was face up.

‘Screams are heard as gay binge ends with body found in pool.’

Again we’re not told the pertinent facts here, that it was Barrymore who found the body and Barrymore who screamed. The ‘gay binge’ is misleading too although we have to assume that alcohol played its part.

The police arrive and, led by the report that this is an accidental drowning, fail to secure what later turns out to be the crime scene. This is a common feature of many of the cases I’ve written about. The scene ends up being contaminated by people going in and out and taking or moving things. Although it’s easy to blame the police for this, it usually happens because when they arrive on the scene, it’s been represented as something it’s not by the people there. See Oscar Pistorius, JonBenet, Madeleine McCann.

16.40 p.m.: Postmortem 1 starts, conducted by Dr Michael Heath.

Part 3 will cover the postmortems.

I have borrowed images from the internet for illustrative purposes.

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Stuart Lubbock, Rest in Peace

Stuart Lubbock, Rest in Peace

Michael Barrymore and the Tragic Death of Stuart Lubbock Part 1: The 999 Call

Stuart Lubbock

Published to coincide with the anniversary of Stuart Lubbock's death. Let's find out the truth.

This blog series was prompted by the recent Channel 4 documentary Michael Barrymore: The Body in the Pool. First of all I'm a little appalled by the title. It uses the TV star's name (to draw viewers, that's acceptable) but the victim is just 'the body'. This is disrespectful and callous. Stuart Lubbock was a person. He mattered and he had a name. It diminishes him to call him ‘the body’. At least have the courtesy to use his name as well as Michael Barrymore's. As in my previous crime blogs, it analyses the language used by those connected in some way to Stuart's death.

My intention with this blog is to analyse some of the statements made by those involved in the incident, starting with the 999 call. I'm not apportioning blame, just pointing out how what people say (and the words they use) and choose not to say can reveal underlying attitudes and intentions. As so much has been published, said and broadcast on this case, I have a lot to consider so will publish the blog in sections. The second part is mainly background, who was there, etc. and you can find it here. The third part covers the four post-mortems and can be read here.

Justin Merritt

The 999 call 31 March 2001 5.48 a.m.

The caller, Justin Merritt's words are in blue, any other quotes in purple.

When the caller is asked for the address, he has to be prompted by someone else (but who? Michael Barrymore?) on every line, from the house number to the town, which suggests that he either doesn’t know the place well or is unsure what he’s allowed to say and is waiting for a cue. Perhaps he's more biddable than the other guests. This kind of prompting puts me in mind of Patsy Ramsey’s 911 call over JonBenet.*

*If you haven't heard of the JonBenet Ramsey case, See my blog for more on the strange words of John and Patsy Ramsey.

The Barrymore 999 call goes like this. Asked for the address:

Someone in the background says Number 4.

Number 4

Someone in the background says Beaumont Park Drive.

Beaumont Park Drive

Someone in the background says Roydon.

Roydon

Someone in the background says Essex.
Essex

This begins with an attempt to establish a narrative, similar to Kate McCann’s cry on the night Madeleine disappeared. She is variously described as saying: Someone’s taken her! They've taken Madeleine! and The fucking bastards have taken her!

What this does is put into everyone's minds the idea that a) Madeleine's been abducted b) A third party is involved in the abduction, perhaps more than one person c) Kate and Gerry are not involved. 

It's also similar to Patsy Ramsey's assertion, the first thing she says on her 911 call:

We have a kidnapping.

This is such a strange way to put it. It sounds as if John said to Patsy, 'We need to call the police' and Patsy asked 'Well, what shall we tell them?' and he said: 'That it's a kidnapping'.

The pool at Barrymore's property, hot tub in foreground

Back to Barrymore, the call continues.

A geezer’s drowned in the pool.

This sentence has several effects:

1. It sets up the drowning/accident idea, so establishing the narrative as mentioned above, what the caller/prompter wants us to believe.
2. It distances the caller from the person in the pool. He doesn’t name the victim (a bit like the Channel 4 documentary) and acts like it’s someone random, whom no one there knows, who's turned up and drowned in the pool although by the time the call was made, you'd have to assume that the caller and the rest of the group know it's Stuart Lubbock but possibly I'm doing them a disservice, perhaps they didn't know his name at this stage.
3. The use of ‘geezer’ is almost derogatory, akin to ‘Oh no! Some geezer’s only gone and drowned in the pool!’ Plus it has the effect of making light of the rest of the sentence.
4. From this and the sentence that follows we know that the person in the pool is already dead, has died before this call was made. Why? Because you wouldn't use 'drowned' of someone who was still alive. Drowned is an ending, it's final. We don't know whether he was dead when he was put in the pool. 

When the emergency operator questions him, the caller rephrases the statement slightly.

A fella’s drowned in the pool?

He uses ‘fella’ instead of ‘geezer’, but the word has the same connotations though is perhaps slightly less dismissive. This time, however, his intonation goes up at the end; it’s said as a question, as if now the caller himself doesn’t really believe what he’s saying.

Asked: Are they still in the water?

No. We've got them out.
We're not told who the 'We' is.

Not sure of the order here but we hear at one point:
Fucking hell.
Asked: Have you done resuscitation?
Did resuscitation. It ain't workin'. Don't know how long he's been there.
And the tone of that last sentence also implies that he doesn't care. The caller's affect is distinctly matter-of-fact, unbothered. This account is at odds with that of James Futers in which he claims Stuart was still breathing when pulled out of the pool. And it suggests that Stuart could have been in the pool, unconscious or dead for a while without anyone noticing.

Then he adds information, an attempt to insert at least something that's actually true.

There’s a party going on and someone’s just gone out and found him.

Again, the victim is still not named although by this time you would have hoped/expected that they'd worked out who it was. The mysterious ‘someone’ we now know was Michael Barrymore and you'd have to assume that the caller knows it was Barrymore but opts not to name him but for a different reason: to try to keep him out of the picture for as long as possible.

Jonathan Kenney

In relation to this, I've just learnt that in Jonathan Kenney's first statement to police, he lied, saying that Michael Barrymore wasn't at the house on the night Stuart Lubbock died, presumably in an attempt to protect Barrymore. But it also reveals that the truth is not an imperative here.

Then the caller ad-libs with extraneous information that has no bearing on the situation at all. As before, this unwarranted outburst of information is possibly something that the caller knows is true so he wants to get it in, to prove himself reliable, normal, straight. 

I tell you what, mate, the first time I’ve been out in four f****** years, I have me kids every weekend, and f****** hell.

Who cares? How is this relevant? And the expletives make it even less appropriate.

So, let's break it down as Peter Hyatt might.

I tell you what, mate.

The purpose of the language used in this diatribe is to align the caller with the operator and establish a rapport, a chumminess. The 'I tell you what' is informal and invites the operator to listen to him as he relates a 'story' and trust what he says because we're all mates here, the same sort of people.

The first time I’ve been out in four f****** years.

This is said to alert the operator to the fact that the caller is not at a party every night, that this is unusual for him. It shows a callous disregard for the victim and even an unspoken attempt to blame him for the fact that the caller’s night out has been ruined and thus also reveals a disturbing lack of perspective. The person in the pool is dead.

Aerial view of Barrymore's property

I have me kids every weekend.

This is an attempt to ensure that the emergency operator realises that the caller is a family man, he has children, who he cares about so has with him every weekend but it also implies that he expects kudos for this. What he's trying to say is: if there was a gay orgy, he wasn’t involved. And moreover, we have to assume that the caller was chosen to make the call because he was married and had children, to steer the emergency services away from the idea that there was anything untoward going on. What we see is that the caller has no sympathy for the dead ‘geezer’. Even if you didn’t know him well, you would have to think this was a tragic end to his night, that perhaps should take precedence over your momentary disappointment. 

... and f****** hell.
More of the same. Said to show shock but comes across as self-involved somehow.

You don’t expect it, do you?

No you wouldn't. Unfortunately this still comes across as uncaring, just a casual aside. There's no empathy.

F****** hell. I think the geezer’s dead, mate.

The inclusion of 'Fucking hell' is supposed to imply surprise although we already know that Stuart is dead and so does the caller. We know this from his first sentence: 'A geezer's drowned in the pool'. The inclusion of ‘mate’ is another attempt to involve the operator in the situation, to make it seem like we're all in the same boat. Still, it’s just a ‘geezer’ to him, no one worth naming. He's a bit like Channel 4 in this.

Along with this, we need to consider:

1. The decidedly offhand tone of the caller throughout. He doesn't sound in a panic or overly concerned, only rising to annoyance when talking about himself and his night out. He positions Stuart as a bit of party pooper whose death is only significant to him inasmuch as it's ruined his fun. This doesn't mean he's necessarily guilty of anything but it also demonstrates how little he cares. He is later reported as being in the jacuzzi with Jonathan Kenney while Stuart was dive-bombing into the pool. This puts them both at the scene at one point, if we're to believe Stuart really drowned. Did no one notice that Stuart was in trouble?
2. What is missing from the content of this call. He hasn't panicked. He hasn't asked for advice on what to do. He hasn't said anyone is attempting CPR. To me, this means that Stuart is dead and beyond advice or resuscitation.

Michael Barrymore

Conclusion

So, we gather from the 999 call that the caller drew the short straw (no one could have wanted to perform this difficult task), probably because he was a family man. His statements show that he doesn't really feel any responsibility himself for what happened.

What we also know is that Michael Barrymore is not mentioned at all, probably because it was hoped that he could be spirited away without anyone knowing.

Later it becomes apparent that Barrymore's PA, Michael Browne, was called after Barrymore had fled the scene. It would be interesting to find out whether he was called before or after the 999 call. Did Barrymore consider his own career and reputation ahead of the need to involve the emergency services? I'm told he did call afterwards. If not, it would be similar to when Oscar Pistorius killed Reeva Steenkamp and called his estate manager and friend, Johan Stander, before calling for an ambulance. See my blog on the Pistorius trial. Damage limitation has to be achieved before the police arrive. I will consider further echoes of the Pistorius case and the JonBenet Ramsey case in the blogs that follow.

And of course, most importantly, it has accomplished its prime goal of establishing the narrative: A man has drowned in the swimming pool.

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Stuart Lubbock, Rest in Peace.

Stuart Lubbock, also a father